When to Use That and Who: A thorough look to Relative Pronouns in English
Introduction
Understanding when to use that and who in English is essential for mastering the nuances of relative clauses and constructing grammatically correct sentences. Even so, these two words serve as relative pronouns, acting as a bridge between a main clause and a dependent clause to provide additional information about a noun. While both "that" and "who" help connect ideas, their usage depends on the context, the type of noun being referenced, and the structure of the sentence. This article will explore the rules, exceptions, and practical applications of these pronouns, helping you avoid common mistakes and improve your writing clarity.
Detailed Explanation
What Are Relative Pronouns?
Relative pronouns are words that introduce a relative clause, which provides more details about a noun mentioned in the main clause. The most common relative pronouns in English are who, whom, whose, which, and that. Each has specific functions and rules governing their use. As an example, "who" typically refers to people, while "which" refers to things or animals. Still, "that" is more flexible, often used to refer to both people and things, though with some restrictions.
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The distinction between restrictive and non-restrictive clauses is critical. Even so, restrictive clauses (also called defining clauses) provide essential information to identify the noun, while non-restrictive clauses (non-defining) add extra, non-essential details. For instance:
- Restrictive: "The students who studied hard passed the exam." (Only students who studied hard passed.Plus, )
- Non-restrictive: "My brother, who lives in New York, is visiting next week. " (The brother is already known; the clause adds extra info.
Why "That" and "Who" Matter
Misusing "that" and "who" can lead to confusion or grammatical errors. Take this: using "that" in a non-restrictive clause is incorrect: "The car, that is red, belongs to my neighbor." The correct version is: "The car, which is red, belongs to my neighbor.Still, " Similarly, using "who" for non-human nouns might sound awkward: "The book who I read was fascinating. " Instead, "The book that I read was fascinating" is better.
Step-by-Step or Concept Breakdown
Rules for Using "Who"
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Use "who" for people: Always use "who" when the noun refers to a person, regardless of whether the clause is restrictive or non-restrictive.
- Example: "The teacher who inspired me retired last year." (Restrictive)
- Example: "My friend, who is a doctor, will attend the conference." (Non-restrictive)
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Avoid "that" for people in non-restrictive clauses: As mentioned earlier, "that" cannot introduce non-restrictive clauses. Stick to "who" or "whom" for people in such cases Small thing, real impact. Nothing fancy..
Rules for Using "That"
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Use "that" for things or animals: When the noun refers to an object or animal, "that" is typically preferred, especially in restrictive clauses.
- Example: "The dog that barked loudly woke me up." (Restrictive)
- Example: "The house, which was built in 1920, is historic." (Non-restrictive; "that" is incorrect here.)
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Use "that" for people in restrictive clauses: While "who" is also acceptable for people in restrictive clauses, "that" is often used in informal contexts or when emphasizing the noun.
- Example: "The person that won the award is here." (Restrictive; both "who" and "that" are correct, but "who" is more formal.)
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Avoid "that" after prepositions: When a preposition precedes the relative pronoun, use "who" or "whom" instead of "that."
- Correct: "The person to whom I spoke is the manager."
- Incorrect: "The person to that I spoke is the manager."
Key Differences Between "Who" and "That"
| Aspect | Who | That |
|---|---|---|
| Noun Type | People | People or things (restrictive only) |
| Clause Type | Restrictive or non-restrictive | Restrictive only |
| Formality | More formal | Less formal |
| Prepositions | Used with prepositions | Not used with prepositions |
Rules for Using "Which"
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Use "which" for things and animals: "Which" functions as the non-human counterpart to "who." It applies to objects, concepts, places, and animals (especially when not named or personified).
- Example: "The report, which was due yesterday, is on your desk." (Non-restrictive)
- Example: "The species which migrates south in winter has arrived early." (Restrictive—though "that" is often preferred here in American English; see below).
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Mandatory for non-restrictive clauses (non-human): Just as "that" is banned from non-restrictive clauses for people, it is equally banned for things. Only "which" (preceded by a comma) can introduce a non-restrictive clause modifying a non-human noun.
- Correct: "My laptop, which I bought last year, is already slowing down."
- Incorrect: "My laptop, that I bought last year, is already slowing down."
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The "That" vs. "Which" distinction in restrictive clauses (American English convention): In formal American English, a strict distinction is often observed: use "that" for restrictive clauses (essential information, no commas) and "which" for non-restrictive clauses (non-essential information, commas required). British English tends to be more flexible, allowing "which" in restrictive clauses.
- American Preference: "The file that you need is on the server." (Restrictive)
- British Acceptable: "The file which you need is on the server." (Restrictive)
- Universal: "The file, which you sent yesterday, is corrupted." (Non-restrictive)
Rules for Using "Whom" and "Whose"
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"Whom" for objects of verbs/prepositions (people only): "Whom" is the objective case of "who." Use it when the person is the receiver of the action (object) rather than the doer (subject). In modern casual speech, "who" often replaces "whom," but formal writing maintains the distinction.
- Subject test: He called me. → "Who called you?"
- Object test: I called him. → "Whom did you call?"
- Preposition test: I spoke to her. → "To whom did you speak?" (Or: "Whom did you speak to?")
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"Whose" for possession (people, animals, and things): Unlike "who" and "whom," "whose" acts as a possessive determiner for all noun types. It replaces "his," "her," "its," or "their." Avoid awkward constructions like "of which" for inanimate objects when "whose" flows better Worth knowing..
- People: "The author whose book won the prize is speaking tonight."
- Things: "The tree whose branches fell blocked the road." (Preferred over: "The tree the branches of which fell...")
Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them
| Pitfall | The Error | The Fix |
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| The "Comma That" | "The meeting, that was scheduled for noon, was cancelled.Use "that" or "which": "The company that released the statement...Worth adding: " | |
| The "Preposition That" | "This is the tool that I fixed it with. " | Companies are entities, not people. Also, " OR use "that" with stranded preposition → "This is the tool that I fixed it with. Consider this: |
| Personification Confusion | "The company who released the statement... " (Never "with that"). " | |
| Restrictive "Which" (US Formal) | "The data which supports the theory is missing.In real terms, " OR keep commas & change pronoun → "The meeting, which was scheduled for noon... That's why " | Move preposition forward → "This is the tool with which I fixed it. Still, " |
Quick-Reference Decision Flowchart
- Is the antecedent a person?
- Yes → Is it the subject? → Who. Is it the object? → Whom (formal) / Who (informal). Is it possessive? → Whose. Is the clause non-restrictive? → Who/Whom (never that).
- No (Thing/Animal/Entity) → Is the clause non-restrictive (set off by commas)? → Which. Is the clause restrictive? → That (US Formal) / That or Which (UK/General). Is it possessive? → Whose. Does a preposition precede the pronoun? → Which (e.g., in which, for which).
Conclusion
Mastering relative pronouns is less about
memorizing a rigid set of rules and more about understanding the relationship between the pronoun and the noun it modifies. That said, by identifying whether a clause is essential to the sentence's meaning (restrictive) or merely providing extra detail (non-restrictive), and determining the grammatical role of the pronoun (subject vs. object), you can ensure your writing is both precise and professional.
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While the boundaries between "who" and "whom" or "that" and "which" continue to blur in spoken English, maintaining these distinctions in formal contexts prevents ambiguity and demonstrates a high level of linguistic competence. Whether you are drafting a legal document, an academic paper, or a professional email, applying these guidelines will help you guide your reader through your ideas with clarity and elegance. By consistently applying the "subject/object" test and the "comma" rule, you can eliminate common errors and communicate with confidence.